Family & Friends

One of Many Joys of Child Care Work

Posted in Family & Friends on January 18th, 2010 by Tom Kertes – Be the first to comment

I am so happy to be part of the Langara ECE program this year! I am part of a wonderful cohort of students who are really interested in learning more about each other, sharing ideas and making a difference as preschool teachers, daycare providers and other child care workers. Here’s a photo of many of my friends from the program at a recent potluck (not everyone could make it to the event). Thanks to everyone in the cohort who have made this such a special time for me!

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Haiti: Help Urgently Needed (Email from a friend who works in Haiti)

Posted in Family & Friends on January 13th, 2010 by Tom Kertes – Be the first to comment

I just got this email from my good friend Luke:

Cher Zamis (Dear Friends in Haitian Kreyol),

As you know, a devastating earthquake has hit Haiti, killing perhaps over 100,000 people. The town of Jakmel where we have our AIDS orphanage is now a pile of rubble. We still have no word from our staff & fear for the safety of our kids. I am very scared.

I am rushing to Haiti in the next few days & will need resources to help not only our kids but also townspeople who are injured, hungry & lacking clean water. A special fund is being set up to allow me to buy supplies, medical care, food & water in the country to directly help people in our town.

I’m trying to raise $10,000. Every penny counts from $5 to $500. I’m just one guy, but with all of you behind me, we can make a difference together. I will be blogging with videos & photos so you can see how your money is spent.

You can give by clicking this link: http://tinyurl.com/ykt74rg

Please share this site link with your friends and on Facebook… every penny counts.

Mesi anpil (Thank you),
-Luke

Call me if you have any questions, (310) 663-7871

Birthday 2010

Posted in Family & Friends on January 5th, 2010 by Tom Kertes – Be the first to comment

I am now 37.  I have always liked the benefits of getting older, but as I get older I’ve come to appreciate the benefits of being younger as well (didn’t have a reference point when younger).  Birthdays are a good time to look back, and so far, so good. Bonus to getting older: Ron made me pizza and cheesecake for dinner.  The night was perfect!  Here are some photos from the dinner (click photo to link to flickr for a photo set from the night).

Remembering 2009

Posted in Family & Friends on December 26th, 2009 by Tom Kertes – Be the first to comment

It has been another busy and wonderful year, with plenty of time for visiting family, doing work I love, and growing older with Ron.  Lots of studying, organizing, traveling, familying and working with families and children.

I went from doing regulatory policy at the College of Early Childhood Educators to working directly with children and families by going back to community college to get a diploma in ECE. I went from living in Toronto to living in Vancouver, and drove across Canada after taking a honeymoon trip to France and making it to Berlin on Otto’s birthday. Earlier I met Skye for the first time in Baltimore. I started to work out an exit strategy with the United Workers, and will resign my position in May 2010. I had a marriage ceremony, 10th anniversary and cake cutting ceremony during our “Wedding Jubilee” from May to September. I quit human development and applied psychology graduate school at OISE and started early childhood educator school at Langara College.

Work included the Allies and Advisers Gathering, City from Below Conference, Community Radio Lobby Days (including meeting with White House staff as part of a delegation), the B’More Fair and Human Rights Zone March, Leadership School, the Fair Food Solidarity Tour, and preparation for the Justice Theater Conference in January 2010 and Our Harbor Day in May 2010.

Welome to the World, Skye Bingham!

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Traveling, Seeing People, and Moving

Snow Storm Good Times

Posted in Family & Friends on December 20th, 2009 by Tom Kertes – Be the first to comment

The snow storm turned out to be quite a bonus.  Greg stopped by for movies and an afternoon of hanging out, and Nick and Ashley joined us for Todd’s Matzah Ball soup.  We had Latkas for breakfast. Robin and I walked to the movie store to get the movies.  We ended up not watching any of the movies we rented, opting for Greg’s pre-DVD release of Where the Wild Things Are (better than the critics would have it – the dark side of children’s secret lives and the power of children’s play may just be too uncomfortable for many adults).  The only disappointment: I was looking forward to Red Emma’s red and black ball.  I am now safe at airport, boarding pass and seat assignment in hand.

One Term Down, Two Terms to Go

Posted in Family & Friends on December 15th, 2009 by Tom Kertes – Be the first to comment

I just wrapped up my last test for the term at Langara, which I had to do in a hurry to get to the airport in time for my flight to Baltimore.  I am now finished with all my assignments and all my tests.  This gives me time to reflect on the experience, as I wait for my flight to Baltimore (where I’ll catch up on my work!).

Truthfully, the term has not always been easy.  The transition to repeating year one of college has been tough at times. When the material is introductory, the structures are molded and firm, the answers usually convergent, the lectures often long, and most of the texts not worth the $1-a-page paper they were printed on, the first year of vocational training is likely a little tough for everyone.  I am thankful that it was less tough for me, since at least I had already been through it a couple of times before.  But it was tough nonetheless.

Langara is not a bad college, and many parts of Langara’s programs are excellent – including many parts of the ECE program. The class sizes are  small.  All of the teachers (in ECE) are caring and attentive.  The library is outstanding.  The culture of students is supportive, curious, engaged, fun and wanting to learn.   And the Langara ECE program is one of the best examples of a publicly funded early educator and care provider training program that I have seen.

But it is, at its heart, a vocational training program, and that has made the experience a little disappointing for me.  I am interested in accessible scholarship – thinking deeply and creating knowledge as a member of a community of learners.  Being trained to correctly fill out forms using templates, learning to memorize terms and correct answers, being graded on quantity of parroted responses, these are not my favourite activities.

The program also reflects some values about the status of ECEs, young people and recent immigrants to Canada.  For one thing, much of our time is not valued.  At the beginning of the program we spent a lot of time standing in lines, a total waste of our time. We are also sometimes asked to do pointless exercises, reflecting almost no standards of excellence.  I wrote over 120 typed pages in the final month of the quarter, almost all of which were narrowly defined template cut-and-paste activities. We sit most of the day and are passive for long blocks of time.  There are discussions, but the range of what is discussed is incredibly narrow.  We sit in class, do lots of busy work, parrot answers back, and learn how to follow procedures correctly.  I wonder: Is this is the best screening and training system for cultural workers charged with caring for young children?

There are many pluses to the program as well.  Like I said, the teachers are attentive and are also hard working, dedicated to the field and effective at teaching the material they cover.  Some of the instructors are world-class, introducing students to complex ideas and interesting theories.  The faculty stood up for students, defending the rights of a group of students who faced extreme difficulty in one class outside of the ECE program.  And the practicum program is very supportive, very well structured and was for me a highlight of the program so far.  These are the reasons why I rank the program as one of the best, even though there is still much I would want to change, from the perspective of a student.

The very best part of the program has been the cohort.  “Wow!” is the one word to describe my response to the people I have come in touch with through this program.  The diversity in ages, cultures, past experiences, interests, talents and personalities is simply amazing.  The cohort functions as  community, and many students are working together to create more curious, more scholarly, and more challenging learning spaces.  This speaks to the faculty and overall program, who not only selected the cohort, but have allowed and help foster the formation of this learning community.